ain't a fairytale. . . .

We live to learn, and learn to live.... Life is not a fairytale, nor a princess story... Even after thousand times been deceived.. The greatest point is where we able to stand up from fallen apart...

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October 27, 2011

Please all, and you please none...


Salam.... and good morning...

Happy thirstday =P

Let's talk about a quote - the one that stated on right sidebar of my blog..can u see ? a quote widget there?

= Please all, and you please none... - Aesop =

It's in one of Aesop's Fable story - bukan usop..usop kaklimah tu, bukan tau ! ala, collection cerita2 teladan yg ada cerita anjing dgn bayang2 la, burung gagak dgn kendi (jar)...mcm2la..buku yg dulu time sekolah rendah cikgu cekgi suh budak2 story telling baca kat depan kelas tu....

So, one of the stories is a story of a man, his son, and a donkey.

Di mana kisahnya bermula when the man n his son jalan sebelah donkey mereka tu.and then ade org lalu dan berkata "mereka patut menunggang keldai tu"
Then, budak tu pun tunggangla keldai tu. Sehingga la orang lain yg lalu melihat dan berkata " how selfishnya budak tu biarkan bapaknya jalan je.."
So bapak budak tu pun tunggang la keldai tu, anak die lak jalan. Then ade org lain lak lalu dan berkata "apela, dua2 naek je la keldai tu".
So anak die pon naek jugakla keldai tu, dua2 tunggang keldai tu sampai ada org lain lak yg lalu dn berkata , " how stupid depa ni, dok mnyusahkan keldai tu ja"..
So, mereka berdua pun turunla dari keldai tu and dapat conclusion yang semakin kita nak memuaskan semua pihak namun akhirnya mereka tak dapat puaskan sesiapa pun..

betoi dak??btoi dakkkk?????btoi kannn..kann..

So, moral of the story here is:
Don't try and be all things to all people. Everyone has different tastes, differences preferences ;
"Different strokes for different folks"la kan...

People will criticize you.. Yes, they will.. anytime,anywhere,anyone..it can't be help !!
Kawan ka..kdg2 org dok knai pon depa dok kutuk2 kan...lumrah..manusia...

So, when your friends,colleagues,even family ignored your work or criticized you - get used to it !
No matter what, you should enjoy your life with bliss-filled of it..
Create your one and only yourself, and don't stop creating..meanwhile, try to improve to have better resolution of yourself..


October 25, 2011

Skirt Panjang on interview...Yay? or Nay?

Salam...

As people say, your attire is the first impression you give to the interviewer before you even speak a word.

Yes, I really agree with that says...

Recently, ada baca tentang a few comments regarding to the website yang beri panduan tentang tatacara berpakaian ketika temuduga..
Ada yg bercerita pengalaman mereka melihat sorg calon temuduga wanita kena halau dari bilik temuduga sebelum di temuduga...(aiiyo..brapee bnyk words 'temuduga' daa)
Kenapa?? Sebab dia pakai kemeja hitam and skirt panjang hijau..
Aiiyarkk...tu mmg tak kena la cik kak oi...

I knew that your attire for interview must be in light color such pastel,white with black trouser/skirt...
And a play-safe attire is Baju Kurung for Malay women..but sometimes I saw even Chinese/Indian women wore baju kurung.. play-safe kan...

But some says baju kurung can sometimes reflected your weakness..maybe you'll look elegant and confident in suits..in 'certain' industries la kowtt...
Yela, kalau pergi i/view for automobile company mybe not suitable to drees in b.kurung...
Kalau i/view for post in admin such as clerk/secretary tu, sesuai la pakai b.kurung.

But what goes in my mind is, the impression of the i/viewer if i wear a long skirt instead of trouser....

Some say it's okay but a few sources I looked into said, long skirt might be okay but not to be too tight ( so that you don't have difficulties to climb stairs) or not too "kembang".

It's okay for non-muslims as they can wear below the knee-skirt and it looks real smarty elegant. So I'm thinking of wearing long skirt because it also looks formal. Is it on the similar level to be compared with wearing trouser?

I'm thinking of wearing long skirt can cover a little of bodyshape than wearing trouser...


October 18, 2011

Shocking Video


Salam...
I'm sure some of you might have seen this video..
I got it from facebook sharing link by my friends... What you had to say about this??
Me??
Totally flattened, upset and in the end of watching it, i cried..